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Joshua Doležal's avatar

I often quote Montaigne in memoir writing courses: "There is as much difference between us and ourselves as between us and others."

Hume's view resonates with Jerome Bruner's "Self-Making Narratives." Bruner shows (persuasively, IMO) how we can never sever identity from our audience. We're always narrating the self in negotiation with what we want to believe about ourselves (and what we can accept/admit), as well as what we think others expect from us. I've been weighing an essay on creating a narrative persona, because the self we construct as essayists is not "us," exactly, but a performance, a pose. I think Bruner is right that we are always negotiating our internal and external audiences, always constructing and reconstructing the self.

Another interesting metaphor: is the self more like a matryoshka doll (series of hollow nesting shells, with emptiness at the center) or more like growth rings in a tree (a solid core with steady expansion each year)?

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Matthew Long's avatar

John, fascinating article and research as always. I have always been drawn to Gollum for the truth he represents about the fractured self. In my teenage years I experienced some significant trauma that caused me to show one face to others while dealing with an interior self that I didn't quite recognize. I think to some degree all of us have this double identity of what the world sees and what is within. I am reminded of a Thornton Wilder quote, "There’s nothing like eavesdropping to show you that the world outside your head is different from the world inside your head." In truth, I believe we all battle with competing interests within, the fractured and broken self. Which of those gets shown to the world often depends on which is the stronger and more powerful impulse within us. Great stuff. Thanks.

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